OK it looks like you are new. I agree...Ebay sucks! Do these prices include shipping? What forms of payment do you accept? Do you have any references like heatware, beerology , or even any Ebay feedback? Who did you sell to and on what forum? Can they be used as a reference?
This is why people ask for references. You're not being treated unfairly. You just registered today and are trying to sell something w/o any online references.
We've all been in the same situation.