Those motherboard capacitors are not regular..off the shelf types. They are specially constructed and low equivalent series resistance (ESR). The reason is, they must deal with the high frequency our motherboards operate at today. Stick a normal off the shelf cap in it and you may have problem (and may not)..but if you do, you will be fighting a ghost and can't prove it.
Also, its standard procedure to replace all of those caps..maybe only one is shorted right now..but they all came from the same defective source.
They are 10 mm in diameter and 25 mm in length...very difficult to locate.
http://www.spectrum.ieee.org/WEBONLY...eb03/ncap.html