OK it was a winsock issue. there was some corruption so I just download a small fix-it ultility called winsockFix for Windows XP and ran it, restarted the computer and everything works well now!
1 more question, how do I make this wireless connection secure, because when I connected to my new wireless network, windows detected my neighbors connection and i was able to connect through theirs. I dont want people to be able to connect through mine.
thanks!