Athlon FX series and Opteron CPUS (i.e. socket 940/939 chips) require registered DDR RAM
Athlon64 desktop CPUs do not (i.e. chipsets written for the 754 socket don't need it).
Currently the A64's out there are supporting PC3200 for best performance. I've been sticking 2 Kingston DDR400 chips in all the 64's I build (they're less expensive and they work REALLY well). They are about $95 apiece...I think.
Go with the nForce3 chipset. The single chip design is far superior to VIA's K8T alternative (nothing against VIA...I love them, but they lost this one for sure)