to be honest if you have the 2 pc's on the LAN at home, then go with crouse's idea which is rfbdrake. i have tried vncserver, tight-vncserver, and rfbdrake from work to home and they are all pretty slow unfortunately even on a lighter window manager like fluxbox. but just to mess around..........id say that way is the easiest way to get it going.
p.s. if you want to see your "current desktop" on linux which would be display 0, you should use vnc from windows and you would have to connect with :
ipaddress:0
in linux you can have multiple displays running so it could be confusing. if you start a vncserver from the command prompt if will automatically run on display 1. so when you actually connect from your windows box you wont see the same display you are currently running on your nix box UNLESS you use rfbdrake. hope i didnt confuse you too much.
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