most people prefer to avoid viewing 'long headers' or 'full headers' in their email messages, For the first part of the search, review the options, get the full headers displayed. The tracing informations is in these headers.
After that... I'm coming up short on the name of the site (5 +years ago) which explained which of those headers is the sender.
This link discusses some of the details... but that is not exactly what my memory is pointing to. I remember the theme was to send the email, with long headers, to a site, and they sent back the information about the source of the message.
Interesting Google Search.
HTH.