I'm not sure about network monitoring on NT Server. On Win2K Server there's an application in Administrative Tools called Network Monitor (I think :-)
If you can't find a network monitoring tool in NT Server, try using a third party monitoring tool. Microsoft recommends a few here:
http://www.microsoft.com/ntserver/pa...v/NUtility.asp
I also noticed at the bottom of that page is a Service Monitor tool, which might be handy for looking at what services you're running.
My main concern for you (and I suspect it's on GroundZero's mind) is that the recent hackers' toys such as the Blaster worm use DoS attacks on RPC (Remote Procedure Call) ports, which is a service that's usually running by default on NT, 2K and XP machines.
Make sure you go to Microsoft and download the latest security patches for RPC vulnerabilities - in fact, make sure you have all the latest security patches installed and the latest service pack updates (although you might want to test these out on a mirrored or redundant / dummy server if you have one before installing them on your main one in case there's any problems)