try and take advantage of your "skillz"
For instance, Nunyadam. Lets just say he needs a little more magazines than other people to get a kill

(Ok nunya, you can hit me later

) But he has good strategies. So he took his "skills" and turned them into an advantage by taking controll of a clan.
www.clanimo.com Where your fraggin' counts(yeah, i'm a leader, i have to advertise, lol

) Maybe you would be good a mutiplayer than single player and in commanding other people, or giving out your strategies and working with the teammates.
Now for games like Solitair, ummm, can't help you there