Good News and bad news, I have found the answer, bad news is, it's an answer I don't like, LoL...
"For security reasons, a Macromedia Flash movie is not permitted to load data from a different Internet domain. Attempts to access cross-domain data or data returned to Macromedia Flash Player from another domain will be ignored by the Macromedia Flash Player"
"For security reasons, a Flash movie playing in a Web browser is not allowed to access data that resides outside the Web domain from which the SWF originated. This applies to any ActionScript command, or object, that can send or receive data, including loadVariables, the XMLSocket Object's methods and the XML Object's send and sendAndLoad commands."
I kind of figured that was the reason, but I didn't think they would do such a thing. Security reasons? Well, passwords are secure? Why could they set something up where it could be allowed? Lazy bums! LoL.
Anyway, thank you for the help Socalgal! And I will come back and post hier if I find a solution
-FireWolf