I really don't think NTFS had anything to do with your problem, other than being more difficult -- on occasion -- to re-partition and re-format. Once you had learned how to go about it, then NTFS is no more difficult than FAT or FAT32 to re-partition.
On our 3 PCs at home, all run XP Pro, all use NTFS (one is dual boot with 98se running FAT32 on the 98se C: partition). My experience is that NTFS is more robust to unexpected shut downs, fragments much more slowly, is less prone to corruption, and has some real obvious security benefits (I don't mean to try to turn this into an NTFS vs FAT32 thread... too many of those already!) I'm only trying to suggest that you don't rule out NTFS simply because you had a bad experience during installation when a power outage occured; you were able to work through and solve the problem.