XP Sucks for wireless royally!! I HATE their stupid automatic setup for wireless its worthless!!!
I have a linksys card, and I REFUSE to use their stinking wizards... On the wireless config I HAVE to shut off XP's automatic wireless setup or it won't pick up the right AP or it won't pick it up at all. I use the config utility that comes with my linksys card... If you just used XP's drivers you wont' get that so you'll have to check DLink's cd it should have some sort of configuration utility so try to use that instead...
If you're already using it, not sure :/
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