here's
link to a page type thing done in php.
Don't worry, they are fairly similar, if you don't fully understand the syntax, you should be able to figure out the idea, and it's really not too complicated, although you may have to rewrite some of the code you've done already.
As for security, mysql requires user and passwords to use the database. And then you can usually put the asp file that contains the password outside of your website path, and just include it inside your code. So, it's basically as secure as your machine.(almost)
and, I agree with you that it's easier to design in access. I used to do it that way, but found myself using mysql more and more, and access less, so now I just design on paper.
dragonb