wow, that is very odd, as the impression i got fromt he manual was that you could set the memory bus asynchronously if you did not use the "by SPD" timming option for the memory. the setting must be for the memory frequency ratio, where 100 is 1:1 and 133 is 4:5.
oh well, at least you can upgrade the cpu. definitely do that! just a reminder to be careful to make sure the 533 fsb chip you get is a northwood core, and not a prescott, or you may have to change your motherboard with a spatula
yeah, the fx5700 or radeon 9xxx series are definitely the best bang for the buck right now in ideo cards. just in time for the new games too.