Whats wrong with using the built in windows media player control?
Option #2: You could just use Flash to do what you need, completely customizable.
Option #3: What about using a java applet.
Out of all of these, I would just use option #1.
just embed it:
Code:
<embed src="YOUR FILE.XXX" width=300 height=60 autoplay=true loop=true hidden=false></embed>
the values are pretty much self explanitory..
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