Dating Advice

[thronka]

Ok guys..who knew I would be asking for advice on dating on the internet :P

Any who... I went out last nite with a friend of mine (who is a girl) but I consider her a girlfriend and she just considers me a friend. We have been friends for a LONG time.. about 2 years.

I told her yesterday, when I was on the phone with her, that "Ever since I met you, I blossomed and opened up. I never do that around anyone else" She replied that "Awww how sweet of you to say that".

I started getting feelings for her a couple of months ago. I told her and she just stayed silent and didnt say anything but she just smiled and replied "Thats fine. It is not going to change anything about our friendship. I am not mad" I think she mean because I said it here she wasnt going to get mad and change her feelings for me. I dunno.. girls can be stange with wording..

ok on to the whole shabang... So we went to the movies and saw "Chasing Libery" (YES I LIKE CHICK FLICKS!) and we watched the movie and ate twislers candy. We fought for the arm rest because I think she is left handed and I am right handed. So we finally just give up on fighting for the arm rest and just put our arms up and just lean on each other. I am leaning anyway because we got this (bless my soul) 14 years old making out next to me and its gross. And we stood that way the whole time.

When we left the movie theatre, we just laughed on how we fought for the arm rest. Don't ask me why. Then we drove, oh my god, 12 miles to the nearest Taco Bell and ate then.. Brian Holt called and talked for about 20 minutes. Then I dropped her off and she said bye.

Let me ask you this then (stupid hormones): How do I know her feelings are changing for me? How do I know she is actually doing this because she wants to and know because she feels sorry for me (I dunno if she does or not)?

Ok dating experts.. your turn now!

[wju425]

I'm no dating expert but it seems y'all are good friends and it looks like it's going to stay that way. I've been there.

\o/ Billy

[The Real Bingo]

Nothing wrong with being friends. But sometimes friends need more. It has to be mutual, and if its not, then it wont work. Have you asked her how she feels?

[brandon184]

You're spending too much time analyzing how you're feeling, how she may be feeling and trying to figure out what every trivial little event means. You should be spending time just enjoying your time together and talking.

If you want to know how she feels, ask her.

- Brandon

[thronka]

I am going to do that. It seems if I have a better time and forget about it, the more natural she will think I seem. I am going to ask her and see what she thinks

[miriam]

you should ask her. Sometimes friends turn out to more than what is expected. I was friends with my husband for 4 years before we both realized we were meant to be. At first he did have the feeling before me and sooner than later my feelings started to grow toward him. We were the best of friends. We knew everything about each other and share infor with relationship we both had with other people, and you know what for some reason along the line our friendship turn to something more. So stay in there if you really like this girl because if she has any kind of feelings for you the signs will kick in good luck.

[Beemer]

Add one more female into the equation and don't hide. That should get some results one way or another.

Cheers!

[Solid Snake]

Seems like if she wanted to take it up a notch she would have jumped on the huge opportunity you gave her to do so.