On a serious note, I learnt almost exclusively in class, and from the playground about 'the birds and bees'. And in that class the question of homosexuality came up. The teacher, matter of fact, explained things about gays to the class, in a question and answer format.
When the parents found out, the teacher got the sack.
IMO, the teacher was the best you could ask for for a kid to learn from - truthful, not biased, and geniune.
From that class (I am still in contact with the majority), only 1 person is gay - the guy who asked the question.
Now, forgive me if I'm wrong, but 1/30 is hardly 'recruiting', and didn't affect our lives - if anything, it made him feel better about himself (not a freak), because he knew others were like him, and it was not something to be ashamed of,
I'm perfectly happy with my education, and would happily put my kids into a sex-ed class that had some basic homosexual information in it.
It ain't a disease, it ain't going to spread, and it ain't wrong. Just different.
And those that are scared, are either afraid of those that are different (like rasicsts), or hiding something