Porn is not something I can condone. My gf is at uni, and down on funds. There is a local lapdancing bar, where the girls dance on stage, and earn over £200 a night. If guys want to waste their money paying to see naked women dancing in front of them,that is fine - they pay for that privaledge (sp?). But there are strict no touching rules, and it is simply an 'evening out' to the regulars.
The difference is that the girls there are in no danger or harm, and are there to entertain, in the same way clowns are at a circus (except richer!!).
At the Bambi hunts, the woman are in danger and risk harm (A paintball to the eye, or 'crotch' areas could leave serious damage, either to eyesight, or worse the abilty to have children. The increased levels of realism and contact blur the lines of reality and fantasy for the guys who pay for this game, that it endangers other women they know - and that is not a risk people should be taking.
But since when has sence come before money? (Only in America!)