This reminds me of this woman I saw on a video I have. Her name is Kathy Buckley, and she bills herself as "The World's First Deaf Comedianne"...she is one of the funniest women I have ever encountered, and she is
pretty thought-provoking as well!
Anyway, she has a viewpoint of, "don't worry about somebody's disablement, or impairment....instead, worry about what they're gonna do with what they DO have!"

She's SO great!
She illustrates this by describing a party (that is attended by a group of folks who have various physical handicaps) in which gifts are given, and the almost
life-threatening sense of humor these folks have, and maintain.... to wit:
The guy with prosthetic limbs gets a game of "Twister" ("oh, left leg on blue? Fine, [unscrews leg, dumps it on the mat] there you go!"
And the blind guy gets a Rubick's Cube....("Is this right? [twists it some more] how about now? Okay, how about now?"
She's a genius!