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Old 06-21-2003, 10:20 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Dont' Judge a Book By It's Cover

another selection from the Joynet

A lady in a faded gingham dress and her husband, dressed in a homespun threadbare suit, stepped off the train in Boston, and walked timidly without an appointment into the president's outer office. The secretary could tell in a moment that such backwoods, country hicks had no business at Harvard and probably didn't even deserve to be in Cambridge. She frowned. "We want to see the president," the man said softly.

"He'll be busy all day," the secretary snapped.

"We'll wait," the lady replied.

For hours, the secretary ignored them, hoping that the couple would finally become discouraged and go away. They didn't. And the secretary grew frustrated and finally decided to disturb the president, even though it was a chore she always regretted to do. "Maybe if they just see you for a few minutes, they'll leave," she told him.

And he sighed in exasperation and nodded. Someone of his importance obviously didn't have the time to spend with them, but he detested gingham dresses and homespun suits cluttering up his outer office. The president, stern-faced with dignity, strutted toward the couple. The lady told him, "We had a son that attended Harvard for one year. He loved Harvard. He was happy here. But about a year ago, he was accidentally killed. And my husband and I would like to erect a memorial to him, somewhere on campus."

The president wasn't touched, he was shocked. "Madam," he said gruffly. "We can't put up a statue for every person who attended Harvard and died. If we did, this place would look like a cemetery".

"Oh, no," the lady explained quickly. "We don't want to erect a statue. We thought we would like to give a building to Harvard."

The president rolled his eyes. He glanced at the gingham dress and homespun suit, then exclaimed, "A building! Do you have any earthly idea how much a building costs? We have over seven and a half million dollars in the physical plant at Harvard."

For a moment the lady was silent. The president was pleased. He could get rid of them now. And the lady turned to her husband and said quietly, "Is that all it costs to start a University? Why don't we just start our own?"

Her husband nodded.

The president's face wilted in confusion and bewilderment.

And Mr. and Mrs. Leland Stanford walked away, traveling to Palo Alto, California where they established the University that bears their name, a memorial to a son that Harvard no longer cared about.

You can easily judge the character of others by how they treat those who can do nothing for them or to them.

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Old 06-21-2003, 11:22 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Just because something sounds satisfying doesn't mean it's true: it's another urban legend.

Anyway, I'm a Harvard guy myself.
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Old 06-21-2003, 11:32 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Sorry to be a wet blanket, but, to anticipate a reply I've had before: a moral tale is always better, more convincing when it's true.

This forum is filled with such pious little gems, most of them false. Ronald Reagan used to tell such stories; they helped make him President. But there's a word for making up stories to prove a point, and it's not a pretty one.
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You know Theo, that was a rotten thing to have done. I was only trying to share a funny story, and you had to make it into something ugly.
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Why do some people feel they need to do that? I'm with you angelcat.
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Old 06-21-2003, 07:52 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I thought you were actually trying to post a factual story. Theo's right though, the stories have much more credibility when they are real.
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Worse yet, Theo had to add a political slant to his reply!

Lighten up Theo!!

Before ya' carbonize yer'self!!

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Whether it's true or not it made a point. The president judged them by their clothes. Why did they wear those clothes? Is it to mingle with the people on the train? Why did they take a train? Only they know and they have a reason to.

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Sorry, I didn't think the point was a political one; just that Reagan was in fact famous for this sort of thing.

A good end is not well served by bad means. It is not okay to make up stories that prove your point, however valuable or heartwarming -- or even true -- that point may be. If you had just presented the moral without the story, people would say "Yeah, yeah, that's right, but my mother told me that already."

Or suppose you presented the same story, but prefaced it by saying, "Here's a fable I just made up." Same effect.

The story is claiming our attention from a privileged position: our assumption of its truth. But it's getting that attention by cheating.

Come to think of it, maybe I am making a political point after all.
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Old 06-22-2003, 02:09 PM   #10 (permalink)
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That's a deep one, Theo. Yes, it is political cheating.

AC: Don't be disappointed. It is a great read and at least I enjoyed it. Sometimes, even fables/proverbs underscore wisdom.
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