how long should you feel bad about someone breaking your heart?

[zskillz]

I'm not sure what my problem is, but I can't seem to get over this. It's been over a month and I am still just crushed. I'm sad about it 75% of my day. I don't know what to do about it anymore.

It's getting in the way of all the other stuff I have to do now.

gosh - this is just such a horrible feeling


-Z

[sharder8]

A couple days for me tops!

What can I say, I'm the DGS type that always seems to see the bright side of everything!

Think of something cheerful or nice about being free!

Take a walk in the sunshine, in a park or woods and look at all the beauty!

Don't dwell on the past, because life goes on!

Life is like a box of cherries! Opps, never mind!!

Harder

been there done that

time heals all

but of course that thread i made a while back, i came home after the summer and it got alot worse. but over time i was better and moved on.

hang in there bud

[Trouble]

I guess its how you look at things.You know is the glass "half empty or half full".
For me I find it best to dwell on the good memories not the bad ones or what if this or that etc.
Works for me at least.

cheers

[originel]

i can totally relate to you...i kinda went through something similar earlier this year (still going through it somewhat). the best advice i can give you is just try not to dwell...get out there and do stuff, just try to get your mind off of it (eventually it'll start to get the hint). and try and move on, maybe even try and find another girl. in the end though you just have to give it time.

P.S. The glass is twice as big as it needs to be

[vass0922]

the heart is slow and stupid

stinkin' thing takes forever to heal with some people it'd be nice if you can just give it some antiobiotics and have it clear up in a few days...
alas this is not the case.. it may take a month... or months.. its different case by case..
You really just gotta put your shoulder down, and say this is in the past and damnit I have a future

Then look in the mirror and say...
I'm good enough..
I'm smart enough...
And gosh darnit... people like me
(j/k about that part )

[Blood_Luster]

hey z, if you ever need to talk just PM me. If I'm on I'll talk with you through anything. Everyone goes though tough times sometimes. You always gotta remember that things get better, and sometimes stuff happens for the best. Don’t let things like this get to you, just need to keep your head high and think of the good things that are going to happen. So really, I can't put a number on how long... but I can give you a number on how long it takes to feel better, 1. You just got sit back and think of better things for yourself(though this may be hard, it's better then being a drip.). Hope this helps.
Later,
-BL

[vass0922]

and how could you not want to talk to a face like Gary Coleman

zskillz, ya just got to hang in there. It will get easier over time. If you think about it, it's not as intense as it was 2 or 3 weeks ago.

It'll ease up, and your thoughts become less frequent. I know it's hard, but try to keep busy and don't let yourself just dwell on it too much. Force yourself to put one foot in front of the other and keep moving and the pain will lift, eventually.

[Omardeth]

having to deal with something your don't understand is very hard indeed ... but what you must really do is remember there is a tomorrow and things do get better .. ya ya ya i know it is easier to say than it is to do , but i think all will agree it is something we all have been through at least once in our life and we all made it out ok .... well naaa nevermind ...

just remember that YOU aren't a bad person and SHE isn't a bad person ... it just wasn't ment to be and try to move on . like what was said already time heals all wounds .. just some seem to take longer to heal than others .. go out with friends , try to have fun .. don't dwell on what could have or what was . it will just bring ya down .