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[cracked]

hey yall. i done went and got myself into a predicament. there are these two girls. they are equally beautiful. one has a little better looks, the other has a little more personality. but overall the are equally great. they are also best friends. i kinda like them both and am trying to decide which one to tell. i have went on a date with one of them before and it went well but we did not go out again because she didnt like the fact that i drink sometimes. but we are still good friends and i think she might still like me and i have since quit drinking. the other one i think i am more attracted toward but i dont know her as well, and i think she might like me also but im not sure.

basically, they both might like me(bad), one or the other might like me(good, but which one?), or niether one could like me(even worse). since they are best friends i do not want to upset either one of them by talking to the wrong one. what should i do?

btw, im a senior and ill be 18 in a month. they are both 16 and sophmores. if we were to start dating sex would not be a factor as i plan to abstain until i get into a very serious relationship. so with that aside, can anyone offer advice?

thanks!

drew

BTW: i know this isnt a love advice forum but i have been here for a long time and i feel that i can trust yall to give good advice

[Blazer06]

Id say...... go with the one that you have been on a date before. Then again I've never had a g/f and never have been on a date so.........





Blaze Squared

[JacobM5727]

uh huh, pedophile! jk.. lol
i would tell the one who you went out with before.. tell her that you stopped the drinking, if she doesnt already know, and all that good stuff.. when dealing with friends its better to choose one, and try to avoid the whole friend dating friends friends thing.. you know?
either way, pick one and stay with it.. and know that if it goes wrong, trying anything with the other will probably make it worse

[Knothead]

Originally posted by cracked
BTW: i know this isnt a love advice forum but i have been here for a long time and i feel that i can trust yall to give good advice

LOL! WHO SAYS??

Oh, Auntie Surreal! You got a customer!

The only thing I would say, based on the few facts you gave, is ALWAYS go with the woman with the personality. Looks can be nice, but the smart, funny one is the one you can really LOVE!!!

There's no argument. Everybody looks the same in the dark, but the one that can make you laugh in that dark, WELL!

That's the one you want!

[Mike]

lol yep, Auntie Surreal has some advice to dish out..!!!
The only advice I can give is STAY AWAY!!! heh j/k.

[cracked]

Originally posted by Knothead
Everybody looks the same in the dark, but the one that can make you laugh in that dark, WELL!

That's the one you want!

good advice! i never thought of it that way!

drew

[daveleau]

Charm is key (but NOT fake charm ). Remember, George Castanza is the only one to do a successful switch in between friends, so choose wisely.
I agree with Knothead and I'd go for the better personality. Looks are fading, but the personality is what keeps 2 people together.

[cracked]

dave where is your avatar?

drew

[Knothead]

Originally posted by cracked


good advice! i never thought of it that way!

drew

Cool!

Oh, yeah, I have a little game where I ask single folks what they're looking for in a mate, and (remember, I live in California, ) you would be amazed and DUMBFOUNDED at what I hear people say.

Women: "Tall, handsome, with lots of money, and strong arms and a great body...oh, and sensitive, and funny, too, and a great lover..."

Notice the priorities...physical properties first, then money...the most important aspects are given the later, second thought, eh?

Men:

A Babe with big **** and looks good on my arm when I walk into someplace, with great hair and big **** who wears really cool, sexy clothes. A really cool babe, ya know?

Try it...you'll get an education.

What I like are those folks who start right in with intelligence, sense of humor, sense of decency toward others, stuff like that. If they say something like, "Oh, yeah, and if she has big ****, that's cool too!"

hahahaha, well, I guess that's okay. The order of their PRIORITIES is the main thing.

[MDS]

Man I was in the exact say predicament once and all I can say is don't do it. That's how I ended up with my ex-wife