g/f problems

[Blazer06]

not really, but I don't have a girlfriend.

I could have one, but i have my reasons why I don't like the offering.

Thing is is how should I ask out a single girl? Got one in mind......(well obviously single.....)

I've never had a girlfriend, what kind of things are you suppose to do with them (besides sex which I wouldn't do anyway.... may want to but wouldn't until i'm engaged...)

A crazed mind in need,


Blaze Squared

[Gomer]

age?

He's about 15, I think.

Blaze, if g/f's aren't a high priority, and you just want company, then just find a friend. Forget about the male-female relationship, and just relate to someone. It could be a girl, but that wouldn't mean you'd have to pursue a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with all it's baggage.

Our society places too much emphasis on the wrong bits of relationships, IMO. Relating to others and enjoying spending time with someone doesn't mean you have to be "going steady" or anything.

Just a thought.

Cheers
Mick

[Blazer06]

me: 14, 15 in month

her: 15

both in same class, both freshmen in highschool. Well actually she is a freshwomen...........


Blaze

[Blazer06]

alright, any suggestions on getting friends?

I know you gus, but someone I could physically talk to would be nice....you know what I mean.


I just don't seem to be a people person. My parents didn't like any of my friends when I was younger so I lost them. I never went out, and still don't so I never really developed social skills. I don't like being the person who just seems to follow the group, I want to be in it. But when i am in it, I tend to get kicked out for saying the wrong things..... etc. Don't know if you know what I mean.

I would like someone I can share my life with.

Blaze

[daveleau]

Ask her to a movie or some place that the two of you could hang out. See if you can find out what she likes to do for fun and see if there is something you could do together. Most of all, be yourself and relax. I know this was a problem I had when I first started dating.

As for friends, try to find people with the same likes as you. The social skills are something that comes from observing and imitating what is socially acceptable for a given situation. There are times to be a free spirit and times to lay low. Neither should be completely ignored. The main thing is to relax and be confident.

[Blazer06]

Well I may goto the movies with her tommorow. Was going to go last friday, but she was sick and there was ahuge ice storm..




Conversation is half of the battle
- Unknown

Blaze

[Gomer]

Get active in extracurricular at school. Your bound to find 1-2 kids with the same interests as you.

How many peeps in your freshman class?

Steer clear of those who do drugs... can wind up taking you down the wrong path in life at that age.

[Blazer06]

Well about 150 in my freshman class.


No, I don't do drugs, beer, cigarettes, etc. I never have tried those and never will.

The worst thing I probaly ever did in my life was about a month ago, and a kid backed out into me and as a reaction i whiped my arm out to push him off. only thing is ......................... that ..................... I had a lunch tray in my hand, and his head was in the way..............


Blaze


EDIT
I am in the Business Professionals on America Club at my school and I will be going to Dallas, Texas on the 30th. I play soccer, which won't happen next year anyway cause of budget cuts....
EDIT

Blaze

[Gomer]

Ah... just live... friends will find you, you will find them. If they cut soccer run track... or better yet... run cross country. I always have said that soccer is just cross country with a ball.

Good luck with the girl =)