I senserly hope everything works out OK for you all.(sp?)
I'm sure there will be a bright spot to it all.
There was for me, when I left CA for NY.
It took me a few years to realize, after the divorce, I found my new wife!
Its been 7 years now!
We cant get enough of each other.
Just remember (here is the mushy part)
We have to live with the turkeys to find the eagles.
(dont remember where I heard that, but it stuck with me...)
Also, Merry Christmas!
Things will work out for the better, maybe tomorrow, maybe next week.
Good luck, and dont let the turkeys get you down.....