Ya know, I really get baffled at peoples behaviors sometimes. Either directly or indirectly.
I have always been one to watch people rather than try to communicate. IMO I learn so much more about a person from watching them. There be times I get very baffled at the behaviors.
Todays Observations:
1. Went to the Post Office with my daughter to pick up my mail. We got done and got in the van. I thumb through my mail and then placed it on the spot I always do. then I reached for my sunglassess off the dashboard and put them on. While I put them on this man in his mid 40's carring a breifcase watched me put my sunglasses on and then gave me a funny look then flipped me off for no reason whatsoever.
I thought to myself. What the heck did I do? No one else was around in thier cars. I looked around to see if it was misdirected and nope it wasn't. So I am baffled by the behavoir. All I did was put my sun glasses on and he happened to be in my direct line of vision.
2nd oberservation. After there we went to the grocercy store to pick up a couple of items. We are standing in the check out counter and I noticed that I wasn't the only one disturbed by the checkers behaivor. The older man (mid 60ish) in front of me also had a stressed look on his face as well. Clearly the checkers behavior was causing this as he effected me just as well. the check is a tall man my guess at least 6ft tall and very heavy set. He had a cough and he kept removing his "hankerchief" (was really a small towel) out of his pocket and coughing into the towel and then procedded to wipe his sweating forhead without even refolding the towel. in other words he wiped his coughed on spittled towel right on his forhead and then continue to handle groceries and money.
Maybe im just a too neat freak when it comes to cleanliness cuz I had to hurry up home just to wash my hands.
I know that is bad, but I could clearly see that the man wasn't aware of how his behavior was effecting others.
Some days makes for a really intersting observation and other days just plain bafflement. the latter has been one of those days today.
The first man I think was aware of his behavior as he had to conciously think to do that. The second I don't think he relized what he was doing. Its amazing how people can be so totally unaware of themselves or even thier surroundings so often.
Last night was intersting, we all were in the rig and we were taking a left turn into the store parking lot and this one lady cut us off as we were making our turn. so we go to finish out turn only to have to turn even wider becuase the bloke behind the broad did the exact same thing. trying to take a left out of the parking lot while we was taking a left into the parking lot. grrrrr. two people in a row.
Well I'd just thought i'd share my strange observations today.
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