I think charity begins at home.
Though the years, my friends always knew that no matter what, I could be counted on for a free meal or many, a place to stay, help moving, stuff like that. What ever I have, if some of it would help, then you were welcome to it, if you were my friend, and in need.
Interestingly, my life has changed a lot over the last ten years; and I have found myself increasingly on the 'needful' end...
And a few of those people (that I helped w/o question) can't be found... and some of them are not in a position to do anything for me, either. And let me tell you something---
I knew it would be like that at the time.
That being said, I am presently
astounded at the goodwill I have recieved at the hands of some of those folks from back then, who are doing well...and
they do remember... 
They live in my hall of personal heroes!
And there are people whom I have known only a short time, but who have good hearts. Some are here, in fact.

Their names are written on mine.