Check out your local agent at
www.firstcommand.com
They are really an independent financial planning service for military. I got hooked up with them way back in the 80s and have made out well with the mutual funds recommended by them that I systematically invested in and insurance coverage that covered active duty and off.
If you're starting a family, it pays to get professional advice on things like this.
Check out
www.usaa.com also. If they insure your car, they might have what you need for life insurance.