Flash player, are you talking about the one where you need to download the flash componet to be able to view flash webpages?
many companies are using flash intros and flash enabled menus for thier websites. It makes thier website seem more sophisticated and well designed. Anyone who has been to a flash driven website knows that it is not easy to design that, It takes alot of time to design a site with such awesome results.
Just MO.
Flash sites bottom line to me means:
1. Sophistcation.
2. Well thought out. (Meaning a whole hell of a lot of planning)
3. Time
4. Classy Look
That just a few.
I don't know why you got "slammed" for asking that question. I haven't seen the thread you are referring to. Maybe it was the way you wrote your words. Hard to say without seeing the thread.
I wouldn't worry about it to much if i was you. Enjoy christmas and don't fret.