This came in my mailbox.
I checked it out and the book is real and the author is one I have read before. He is a Christian writer, if he is the same author I am familiar with. It is a touching account of an unexpecting Marine father.
Here it is:
Washington Post
November 26, 2002
Pg. 29
My Heart On The Line
By Frank Schaeffer
Before my son became a Marine, I never thought much about who was
defending
me.
Now when I read of the war on terrorism or the coming conflict in Iraq, it
cuts to my heart. When I see a picture of a member of our military who has
been killed, I read his or her name very carefully. Sometimes I cry.
In 1999, when the barrel-chested Marine recruiter showed up in dress
blues
and bedazzled my son John, I did not stand in the way. John was headstrong,
and he seemed to understand these stern, clean men with straight backs and
flawless uniforms. I did not. I live on the Volvo-driving, higher
education-worshiping North Shore of Boston. I write novels
for a living. I have never served in the military.
It had been hard enough sending my two older children off to Georgetown
and
New York University. John's enlisting was unexpected, so deeply unsettling
I did not relish the prospect of answering the question "So where is John
going to college?" from the parents who were itching to tell me all about
how their son or daughter was going to Harvard. At the
private high school John attended, no other students were going into the
military.
"But aren't the Marines terribly Southern?" asked one perplexed mother
while standing next to me at the brunch following graduation. "What a waste
he was such a good student," said another parent. One parent (a professor
at a nearby and rather famous university) spoke up at a school meeting and
suggested that the school should "carefully evaluate what went wrong."
When John graduated from three months of boot camp on Parris Island,
3,000
parents and friends were on the parade deck stands. We parents and our
Marines not only were of many races but also were representative of many
economic classes. Many were poor.
Some arrived crammed in the backs of pickups, others by bus. John told me
that a lot of parents could not afford the trip.
We in the audience were white and Native American. We were Hispanic,
Arab
and African American and Asian. We were former Marines wearing the scars of
battle, or at least baseball caps emblazoned with battles' names. We were
Southern whites from Nashville and skinheads from New Jersey, black kids
from Cleveland wearing ghetto rags and white ex-cons with ham-hock forearms
defaced by jailhouse tattoos. We would not have been mistaken for the educated and well-heeled parents gathered on the lawns of John's private
school a half-year before.
After graduation one new Marine told John, "Before I was a Marine, if I
had
ever seen you on my block I would've probably killed you just because you
were standing there." This was a serious statement from one of John's good
friends, an African American ex-gang member from Detroit who, as John said,
"would die for me now, just like I'd die for him."
My son has connected me to my country in a way that I was too selfish
and
insular to experience before. I feel closer to the waitress at our local
diner than to some of my oldest friends. She has two sons in the Corps.
They are facing the same dangers as my boy. When the guy who fixes my car
asks me how John is doing, I know he means it. His younger brother is in
the Navy.
Why were I and the other parents at my son's private school so
surprised by
his choice? During World War II, the sons and daughters of the most
powerful and educated families did their bit. If the immorality of the
Vietnam War was the only reason those lucky enough to go to college dodged
the draft, why did we not encourage our children to volunteer for military
service once that war was done?
Have we wealthy and educated Americans all become pacifists? Is the
world a
safe place? Or have we just gotten used to having somebody else defend us?
What is the future of our democracy when the sons and daughters of the
janitors at our elite universities are far more likely to be put in harm's
way than are any of the students whose dorms their parents clean?
I feel shame because it took my son's joining the Marine Corps to make
me
take notice of who is defending me. I feel hope because perhaps my son is
part of a future "greatest generation." As the storm clouds of war gather,
at least I know that I can look the men and women in uniform in the eye. My
son is one of them. He is the best I have to offer. He is my heart.
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Frank Schaeffer is a writer. His latest book, co-written with his son,
Marine Cpl. John Schaeffer, is "Keeping Faith: A Father-Son Story About
Love and the United States Marine
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