Sounds to me like that ABS is working ok. That's exactly what it's supposed to do, tap or pump the brakes without allowing the tires to lock-up.
You're probably not old enough to remember, the rule of the road used to be "never do a panic-stop". A panic-stop is just jamming on the brakes with all your might. That's a big no-no with regular brakes because with the tires locked you have no steering control over the vehicle. Plus if you lock'em up at 60-70mph or above and keep'em locked until you stop, then you just ruined 4 tires as well by putting severe flat spots on all of them. (I've done it.

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Since ABS that "rule" has done a 180°. When driving vehicles with ABS then you SHOULD step on the brake with all your might, but the key difference now is while you do that you need to continue to steer the vehicle because you'll still have control thanks to no locked tires.
I guess depending on the exact situation it might be possible for a car with ABS to slide more, as you say. But I'd bet it just
feels like you're sliding more. Truth is with ABS you shouldn't be sliding at all. Unless you're talking about lateral, or centrifugal force, as in sliding by turning...in that case it's poor driving, AKA driving too fast for the road conditions.