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Originally posted by daveleau I believe people have certain traits they are born with. I also believe that the first years of life mold a person's character. |
I think you are born with your personality. I think it's inherited just like your eye color. How can we ignore that concept when there is no question about physical traits being inherited? Why wouldn't the brain and the way it responds to situations and reacts be the same?
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Originally posted by daveleau My dad died when I was 5 and now that I am grown people always comment on how similar our personalities and mannerisms are. |
Me too. I was 5 also. And I heard the same comments growing up. I think that reinforces all the more what I said above. I didn't get any character building etc from my father. He wasn't home much. He was either working or drinking. He drank himself to death at the age of 48. My mom remarried and I was not raised around that side of the family.
I met a cousin about 6 years ago. His dad was my Uncle, my fathers brother. He died at 48 too. Drank himself to death. My cousin never really knew his father. His mom left his dad when he was a baby and hated the family. He didn't know any of that side. When we met it was really bizarre. He was a male version of me. Same sense of humor, personality type, we watched the same cartoons as kids. Played the same types of games (we were both pretty much without siblings or childhood friends, alone a lot).. We even had many of the same mannerisms and same kind of laugh. Anyone would have thought surely we were raised together if not brother and sister. I say we were just born that way.....
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