I just got really hurt :(

[Ritalin Kid]

Well in the very interesting week I've had I just ot off the phone with my g/f soon to be ex girlfriend..

We've been going out for 4 months and I was in love with her I must say... we weren't just boyfriend and girlfriend but also best friends we never fought and always go along great..

She called today to say that when she went out last night she saw her ex-b/f they went out for 4 years.. he treated her like crap but when we started going out they had been broke up for 6 months but didn't start to bug her until he found out she was dating someone else..

Well now she says she has feelings for both of us and is confused and doesn't want a serious relationship, the ole "don't you think we're to young to kow what love is?" junk..

I hurt bad inside.. I try not to show it to my friends but I just got back from my moms house after crying my eyes out... I just wish girls would be completely honest about why they want to break up instead of beating around the bush.. cause it hurts even worse later after you found out they lied..

I guess I just need a couple of shoulders to cry on.. the only ting running through my head is "what went wrong?" *shrugs head, sheds a tear*

[TheBurningCat]

I understand where your coming from, I think most people do.

Why cant the just come straight out and say "I like that guy" or just make sure you know what they are thinking.

I can never tell what the girl i like is thinking.

oh man, i know how you feel. time is the only thing that will heal your pain. i should know i have been thru that so many times

[caddmannq]

Bad news, Rit.
But keep these things in mind:
Women usually don't know what they want until they've hurt themselves a couple times.
If she went back to someone that treated her badly, she doesn't know her own heart yet, and she is too young to know what love is.
The older you get, the more chicks become available, and the quality increases too.
(When you get to be my age they'll be comming out of the woodwork, and you'll be hard presssed to let them down lightly.)

[thekingofpain]

I hate to hear this only because it takes me back to my "youth" and makes me cringe---
OH how ive learned to:
1)acknowledge
2)LEARN
3)accept
4)move on

*Thanks for allowing me to relive my life in what I tell you...

Edit----> I might add, I choose my relationships closely now, only due to experience...

wow king you sound just like my dad. he said the very same thing three summer ago. i remember it like it was yesterday

[SEALTEAMTHREE]

Almost makes me glad I didn't date during highschool...didn't have to put up with the break-ups and such. That sucks man

I'm so sorry Rit nothing else I can say. Nothing went wrong other than she wasn't the right one for you. It's her loss.

Besides, you have to be ready to meet the real woman of your dreams when God has you two cross paths.

[Cruez]

Bummer.... I have been through it too....

Really sucky.... Can't eat...Can't Sleep....

I hated it...

[Ritalin Kid]

Well I just got off the phone with her after a LONG conversation I made it very clear that once it's over it's over all I can do is be her friend and that's somethign she will have to expect if she ever decides to change her mind in the future..

well an hour of confessions she's scared she's made things ackward which they are but I understand what she gong through.. but she doesn't want to go out with her ex she want to work things out.. don't know how they are gonna work out but atleast in the end we can say we completely honest with each other..

though now I can sleep.. going to Knoxville tommorrow to stay the weekend with her so everyone wish me luck..