Advice needed.

[lost-and-found]

Hey, I'm currently a junior. There is only like 1 girl in my whole school that I'm thinking of asking out on a date. The problem is, I feel that she dislikes me (I'm not sure thougn). I'm the very perfect image of a computer geek; shy, skinny, wearing glasses (bleached hair).
Will someone help me ask her out? (give me an idea)
ANy help is welcome on how to ask her out...

[vass0922]

Gimme her email address I'll ask her out.... for you of course! LOL
a BIT young for me lol
know of anything you two have in common?
somewhere you know where she'll be?
Any chance of just being able to simply talk to her and find out who she is?

[jnas]

If she doesn't know you, you could start with hi my name is ______ but my friends call me lost-and-found. Then start a conversation with her about one of her favorite subjects (This you will need to find out before approaching) and hopefully everything will fall in place.

[Knothead]

Hi, L&F...ah, I remember when...being smitten by Kim F., and being terrified that she'd find out, and reject me...only to learn (years later) that she was quite interested in me, and could never understand why I was always so "cool" towards her...

Buddy, you just have to bite the bullet and approach her...what's the worst that can happen? Maybe she'll say no...? No guts, no glory...anyway, what's the basis of the attraction? Have you spoken with her?

You just might be surprised to learn that she might just be as nervous about the whole question of dating as you are, hmm?

Just...talk...to...her...she's just as human as you are!

[Knothead]

Okay, and vass and jnas just gave you some very good advice, too! Go for it, guy!

[vass0922]

not that I have any experience in this matter whatsoever lol

[lost-and-found]

to tell you the truth... I don't really know her. We're not even friends. (that means that I don't even know her e-mail addy).
Thanks for all advice so far. (ahh, why was I born a geek???)

p.s. btw-would you have any advice for my friend who likes a girl who already has a b.f? he just popped me an IM and asked. thanks

[Knothead]

Yeah! Tell him to keep looking! She's taken!

edit: Okay, here's something better--this was said by George Bernard Shaw, and it's funny (and kinda true!)

"Love is the gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else."

hmm...I'm in a crabby mood tonight. Okay, g'night!

[vass0922]

beat up her b/f LOL

Well IMO stay away (for your friend) *shrug* I'm just an old fashioned guy that says stay away from those kinds of things... if its meant to be ... that current couple was not meant to be ...
I don't personally agree with breakin' up a relationship for your own benefit.

[Chooco]

usualy just asking out some person you don't even know won't work.
unless you have actually had a conversation or something together you can't just ask that person out.

if some weird goth girl (about same social status of nerds, but lower intelligence and look like crap) just asked me on a date i would say no because i don't know if i have anything in common, i don't know if she one of those i-hate-society dirtbags or if she doesn't shower at least once a week.