First I'd like to add it's not an international bank draft, so that's not a factor. It was from TD Canada Trust (a major bank up here) and sent to a "gentleman" in Edmonton, although granted it was in US funds.
Okay here goes. I'll try to make this as short as possible (it'll still be long though, I'm bad at this). I won this guy's auction for a Thinkpad keyboard (See, it is computer related.

). After it closed he said he had several other parts available, and to make an offer on what I could use. I made an offer just as a starting point (I hate making offers...), and he rudely rejected it saying that would barely cover one of the chosen parts. Okay, I asked how much for the rest, and he responded with "make an offer". During this time he wouldn't answer some of my questions, and when he finally did he got all mad and insisted that he answered the first time yet wouldn't check his archives to prove it like I had already done. A lot of bickering back and forth ensued, a sign of things to come...
Eventually he just said to send to the payment for the keyboard and have done with it, which I gladly did on Feburary 12th. A week went by, no e-mails. Two weeks. Three weeks went by, no sign of the keyboard. During that third week I grudgingly sent several e-mails asking if the bank draft had arrived. Nothing. So, I asked a friend to poilitely enquire about another auction, which was responded to immediately. A little more bickering ensued, but we found out that the bank draft had just cleared the bank (on that day conviently enough, at least two weeks after it had arrived) and the keyboard would be shipped right away. Fine, just get it over with...
The keyboard arrived alright, slid into a thin cardboard frozen-pizza box taped shut with packaging tape, with zero padding. My mother even commented on how it wasn't packaged very well. Luckily it still works.
At this point I wanted to leave negative feedback since I was definitely not impressed, but I thought I'd be nice and leave neutral, with a simple "good item, poor communication, poor packaging, slow shipping" message. The honest truth, this is what the feedback system is for right? Well during the same week three other people left him negative feedback and his account got suspended. Guess who he blames? Yep, he's been bitching at me through e-mail how he deserved positive feedback "and you know it" and how my "stupid" feedback got him suspended. I asked the people who left negative feedback and he hadn't complained to them at all. One of them even had a similar experience. I guess he thought I was the only one he didn't jerk around TOO much.
Over what must be a week now he's been whining at me through e-mail (I've since blocked his addresses, enough is enough). He claimed he's a CSI (ahem... impressive) and he knows how a bank deals with bank drafts and how it takes a long time to clear. This he has repeatedly complained about, even though I stated that I have sent over a hundred bank drafts all over Canada and the US and cashed a few myself and this is the first holding period I've ever encountered. Apparently this makes me a rookie since he's a CSI (must be a trainee if he's dealing with bank drafts, as I pointed out. lol) He was right about one thing though, the auction terms did stated that it may take up to thirty (?!?) days for a cheque/bank draft to clear. Regardless, it's still slow so my comment was valid. Apparently my admitting that it was indeed in the auction terms makes him think that I'm "totally in the wrong" and that he deserved positive feedback. This guy just doesn't get it.
So what would you guys have done? With a transaction like this, what feedback would you have left? Am I "totally in the wrong?" (A common phrase from that moron.) I figure that at the end of the day (month actually) I still have an active eBay account and he's been suspended (due to one neutral feedback, the five total negatives had nothing to do with it mind you). How wrong can I possibly be?
I must say this has botherd me so much that it was all I could think about at work Friday morning. My hands were actually shaking at the thought of how stupid some people can be. Silly I know, but things like this bother me. Unless of course, I'm "totally in the wrong". If I am, please tell me. I like to think I'm open to criticism. Thanks for listening to the nonsense I've been enduring over the past week.