Go through the ropes with google checkout team. I got an email today from the google checkout staff that a refund has been issued. THANK GOD!!! I never once got a real live person from afterchristmasusa.
I notified google of my situation through this and got a response from a google rep a few days later. Give them your order number and tell them what happened.
http://checkout.google.com/support/bin/request.py 
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