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Old 04-01-2002, 07:28 PM   #1 (permalink)
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My g/f. I need HELP! thanks.

Ok, here's the situation. Me 'n my g/f haven't been able to see each other a whole lot lately...

She works 2pm to 10pm, all week, has the weekend off, then works during the week, as wed and thrusday off, then works the weekend... so it's like a 2 week thing... on 'n off.
then, march 21st she had sinus surgery. (week before last) she had all last week off... I went an saw her at her place, on tuesday, that was the only day she could fit me in.

all the rest of the week, she's been out with her friends, we had a date for friday, she calls me at 4:30 and cancels, saying she's going to stay with her friends because she'd have to leave to go back to her place at 11 anyways, so we wouldn't get to see each other much anyways. but, we'd get together on saturday, and spend ALL day together.

She shows up at my place at 3:30 in the afternoon on saturday.
I tell her, hey, i want to see you more, i'm sorry, but, if i wanted an online relationship, i'd goto yahoo chat, or if i just wanted to talk to someone on the phone, i'd go grab a phone book.

now... i'm a lil pist, because, she woulda had to leave my place at 11pm, but, she could stay at her friends till 3:30 in the morning( i know she was there, cuz she called me when she left)

Now, i'm a lil bit pist... am i really being to "attention hungry" as she called it, if i want to see my g/f more than 12 hours a freakin week? am i really being a prick for getting pist that she'd have to leave my place at 11, but can stay at another place till 3:30. and, this isn't a problem about her parents rules, or her rules or anything either, lets get that clear.



So, is TonTo an "attention hungry prick"
or his he a jusifyably pist of and hurt b/f?


any idea's on how to solve this situation. i mean, 12 hours a week, can you base a real relationship off that?

oh yeah, and when i went to her place, we were sopposed to go out... well, she didn't feel good cuz she'd stayed up till 2:30 again and was tired, so we just stayed in her room and ordered her a laptop.

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